BIG Shake Ups, The Swirling Drain and Allowing - Free Weekly Horoscopes April 8 – April 14, 2013

Lots of personal belief systems falling, failing and transforming this week, LOTS.

This will appear outwardly in the world as literal, physical break downs of equipment, processes and relationships. It's all good people, ALL GOOD. Don't dwell on any of it. Accept it, do the best you can, keep moving and keep smiling. Life is too big and too divine to live in the world of worry.

Want to know what's going on? Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting Happiness OR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose .

Wynn Free offers free to attend spirit calls three times each week---you can call in or listen online. He takes everyone on a journey to connect with the higher realms of light that we are a part of and opens the air waves for a direct message from Source.

If none of those grab your interest, there is one way to move in this new direction that you can practice on your own---Open Your Heart, forgive and practice doing so constantly.

Aries (Mars) – All manner of information reveals your weaknesses and misperceptions. You are being guided to begin living with a better understanding of what really is going on around you, and you are being pushed to take actions that you may yet be comfortable with. Take things slowly and methodically by verifying before jumping in. 4 of Wands reversed

Taurus (Venus) – The mix of events this week will have your head spinning. How can it be that your prized way of thinking gets upended and life gets better? Doesn't that run against what should occur? Enlightenment simply gives you insight into ill-formed thoughts and actions. If you have insight, it shifts and aligns you to Source and that opens the doors to beneficial events. The Tower

Gemini (Mercury) – A minor shake-up pushes everyone else away from you and leaves you to your own devices. This could indicate your work desk being moved away from certain colleagues to a breakup with a friend or lover to a decision to stop car pooling—the shake-up possibilities are endless. This is guided and meant to be—adapt and keep moving. The Tower reversed

Cancer (Moon) – Fighting something you cannot see, or have not identified, can be exhausting. At this moment, you are dealing with such a situation. Get enlightened on your situation via therapy, hypnosis or a past life regression. This is deep and you need a revelation to move beyond it. Making that connection will open up a new world for you. The High Priestess

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting HappinessOR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

Leo (Sun) – Spend time reflecting on the moment you are in. Are you happy? Are you living the way you desire to? What changes do you need to make to feel comfortable? Someone you are deeply tied to makes an unexpected move that brings heartache. This is an opportunity, a gift, that allows you to release and resolve many things. Take advantage of this to move forward. 4 of Swords

Virgo (Mercury) – Funny what getting your home or work space in order can do for a Virgo. Selecting a single thing to focus on or one path to follow has the same effect---things just seem to fall into their rightful place. You will have a succession of events that lead you to the place you always dreamed of being, the place where you have everything you need and are satisfied with the outcome. And all it took was staying focused. The Emperor

Libra (Venus) – This week, losing your place in line isn't the upsetting situation it usually is. In fact, it is a blessing that allows you to quickly replace what you thought you wanted with what you really wanted. You have control over where you are headed, although it may not seem that way at times. Just reformulate your thoughts and re-organize a bit and all will be well. 2 of Wands reversed

Scorpio (Pluto) – All the loss and fighting in the world cannot separate you from what truly is you, even though it may feel like that. Get distracted with something that delights you, something that has a deeper meaning for you, something that shifts your thoughts and allows your mind some downtime. Ignore the arguing and don't get involved. It's time to move on, quietly and deliberately. 8 of Cups

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting HappinessOR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – Stop for a moment and consider all the crazy situations you have been in over the last several years. On some level you have been responsible for every single one. If you want your life to take a different turn, you must be the one to change. How to change will be revealed to you as you accept what has recently occurred. The Magician

Capricorn (Saturn) – Hanging on for dear life? You have hit a point of stagnation and it is time to make a decision about how to shift away from past patterns and into a new way of existing. Examine the ideas you started off with years ago. Are those still valid places for you to be? Consider more recent thoughts about where you want to be. Now, create your new, hybrid life and stay focused on that. 4 of Coins

Aquarius (Uranus) – You have substituted one confounding situation for another—that's a lateral move and not a forward move. These situations are similar in their foundation. You can examine what and why you are drawing this pattern to you by looking at the similarities between the events and your thinking. This is the universe's way to get you to learn better discernment. The Lovers reversed

Pisces (Neptune) – It appears you have thrown in the towel and accepted where you are, for the moment. That has shifted you toward a happier home situation. However, your feelings are still there and you must begin to allow it ALL to be okay. Living in the moment provides the understanding that this simply is a moment and it too will change. Hold on loosely and don't let go. Knight of Swords reversed

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting HappinessOR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

Listen Up, Look for Patterns, Stop Whining Free Weekly Horoscopes for March 18 – 24, 2013

At any moment in time you can shift your thoughts, open new vistas and feel life flowing through you. All you must do is catch those thoughts moving toward an undesired direction, replace them with better feeling thoughts and do this consistently.

The other aspect of shifting requires you to refrain from taking an accounting of your success. Instead, you accept every moment as perfect, no matter what it looks like.

Try this process for a month and see where you land. Replace negative thinking, anger and demands with beautiful instrumental music or thoughts or images of beauty. Know what your overall goals are and refrain from checking your bank account, others opinions or the stock market to see how well you are succeeding.

Want to know what's going on? Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting Happiness OR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose .

Wynn Free offers free to attend spirit calls three times each week---you can call in or listen online. He takes everyone on a journey to connect with the higher realms of light that we are a part of and opens the air waves for a direct message from Source.

If none of those grab your interest, there is one way to move in this new direction that you can practice on your own---Open Your Heart, forgive and practice doing so constantly.


Aries (Mars) – There are lots of people telling you what they think you should do. In fact, many of them push your personal panic buttons. It is time to take back your belief systems and become a new person---one who follows their heart and trusts the Universe. Examine what it is you truly believe and begin changing those thoughts to align with the divine. Ace of Cups reversed

Taurus (Venus) – You are not alone, ever. An emotional female energy triggers your life into its next phase. You keep thinking it's money you should be concerned with, but you have no money problems really. The problem is negotiating skills and putting parameters on what it is you desire. Get general when describing your goals. Knight of Coins reversed

Gemini (Mercury) – Now that Mercury Retrograde has gone direct, the energy of your thoughts will begin to slowly move forward and take form. Stay focused---not easy for a Gemini. Retrograde motion actually forms a barrier for Geminis and allows them to re-till the soil of their deepest desires. Transformation rocks! Death

Cancer (Moon) – A very well-lighted path is emerging for you regarding your purpose. The problem is you don't look up long enough to see the bigger picture. Instead, you put your nose down and push against what you demand of life. This does not allow anything you truly want to come to fruition. Look up and let go, NOW. The World

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting Happiness OR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

Leo (Sun) – The blinders drop and you suddenly have insight into your money issues. These insights utterly change the course of your direction exactly as you wish them to. Tied to this new direction is also a shift in your belief about male energy and emotions. Inner hearing is highlighted this week---Listen The Chariot reversed

Virgo (Mercury) – You have the Universe supporting you, so you need not rely on your mind to “get it right”. Guidance is available if you will just “hear it” when it is offered in the form of a book, a movie, a passing comment that directs you to re-focus your thoughts. Look for the light in all matters. 9 of Coins reversed

Libra (Venus) – You have made it past the most difficult angle of your journey but you probably would like to hang onto the difficulties a bit longer. That is not necessary. However, you will need to stand still a bit longer to allow your manifestations to catch up to you. Yes, you really are moving that fast! Justice reversed

Scorpio (Pluto) – A little advice about the new adventure you are stepping into: focus on the flow and don't worry about the money at this point. Also, don't spend what you don't have. You will need to use what you have just learned about allowing life to flow in order to make this work for you and everyone else. The Fool

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting Happiness OR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – Gratitude should be the point from which you operate---always. Acceptance of the moment is crucial to reversing what you perceive as “wrong”. Put aside the emotional response you are accustomed to projecting and see that justice is in operation at all times, whether we understand justice or not. 3 of Coins reversed

Capricorn (Saturn) – You should be feeling as if you just got shot out of a cannon. Survey where you are headed and plan a landing so you can put roots down. Remember, no energy or idea is ever lost or destroyed, it just transfers into something else. 6 of Cups

Aquarius (Uranus) – Incoming information is headed to you about your personal rebirth and letting go of past perceptions about money and value. Someone very close to you has reached a personal point of awakening and is branching out on their own. Accept it and keep them in your life or reject their needs and lose them. Judgment

Pisces (Neptune) – When negotiating with loved ones, don't lose sight of what you aim to accomplish—they may try to persuade you not to do what you know you need and desire. This path of self-worth and accomplishment you are headed down will bring much desired ease and prosperity, if you stay true to yourself. Ace of Coins

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting Happiness OR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

Balance is the Key to Survival – Free Weekly Horoscopes March 11 – 17, 2013

Are you justifying your existence? Are you hanging on to outdated, inappropriate ways of thinking about your life and you?

The most difficult aspect of the energy floating around these days is that we continually attempt to evaluate it with old patterns, outdated belief systems and ultimately with ideas that no longer fit the situation.

It's time to release the old and usher in the new. The new is a whole different ballgame. It's constantly changing, altering its patterns and creating exciting and illuminating pathways for us to interact with. Nothing remains the same for very long in this new world.

To survive this shift in energy, to interact with this new energy, to grow and enjoy this experience we must know who we are, we must learn to balance our being.

Want to know what's going on? Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting Happiness OR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose .

If none of those grab your interest, there is one way to move in this new direction that you can practice on your own---Open Your Heart, forgive and practice doing so constantly.

Aries (Mars) – Could it be that you are focused on something that is blocking what you truly want? The cards show you hanging on when there is no reason to and blinding yourself to the truth. What you are hanging on to is in the past, maybe even from another lifetime. Try some hypnosis or past life regression to get a handle on the issue. 10 of Coins reversed

Taurus (Venus) – A decision is imminent and the result, no matter what you may choose, will shift you into an even better world. You must take the bull by the horns (hehehe) and adapt to a more adult pattern of living---leave behind the childhood pain. When you hang on to pain too long it becomes part of a thought pattern that serves no one. Transform now. 2 of Wands

Gemini (Mercury) – Gaining enlightenment can be a rough but important experience. Right now, someone thinks they have won the game and figured out how to gain on everyone. You will witness this week someone else, and consequently yourself, struggle with maintaining a belief system that no longer works for them. Learn by observing and you can shift your own thoughts about power and how to direct it better. 5 of Swords

Cancer (Moon) – Stay put and you will reap the benefits of your labor. Success is a tentative thing and the movement of life you have established is rolling along just fine whether you put the label of success on it or not. A creative project will challenge you to further transform your thinking. The decision you face is an opportunity to view your life in balance. 6 of Swords reversed

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting HappinessOR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

Leo (Sun) – There is a thought pattern in place that you are holding onto that is causing money to get blocked in your experience. Money is simply an object of exchange and you have the power to choose how to interact with it. Provide value and others will be willing to exchange your skills and ideas for money. Ace of Coins reversed

Virgo (Mercury) – Things are popping left and right (that's a good thing) and you may not even notice because you are so busy meditating on what went wrong. However, all this internal and external movement may be manifesting as a new point of view about work and life. Allow this new view to show you where to head next and don't take action on a project unless you are motivated to do so. Knight of Swords reversed

Libra (Venus) – A new cycle is beginning regarding prosperity and you are in the imagination stage of the cycle. However, you are still struggling with certain aspects of the old belief system you are leaving behind. Stop, you don't need to bother because that belief system is over and done with. Deep breath and refocus yourself every time you realize you are running thoughts that are counter to your new understanding or goal. Ace of Coins

Scorpio (Pluto) – The unstable period you are in is due to your inability to discern what is truly best for you. To get focused, choose a single goal to work on---just one, not two. If money is the culprit, focus on improving skills to get better pay. If it's a relationship, improve your listening and communication skills or try therapy to assess the truth. 7 of Coins

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting HappinessOR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – It may seem that you lost what was important once you let go of the beliefs and accusations you were hanging on to, but that would be an illusion. A new bridge is in front of you to lead you into the best place you could possibly be in this moment. Ask to see that bridge and keep asking—it will appear for you. High Priestess reversed

Capricorn (Saturn) – You may discover this week that a male figure in your life is not towing the line the way you expect him to. In fact, he may have skirted issues long enough to cause a financial problem. There is a solution and you can find it if you will spend time meditating on the topic. Try calling on the concept of equilibrium to solve the issue—just ask for balance. King of Wands reversed

Aquarius (Uranus) – On the surface it appears you have everything under control. However, you are still pushing against the order of your existence, and pushing blindly. The game is about finding the right balance. Try focusing on improving one skill above all others and see where that gets you. 9 of Coins

Pisces (Neptune) – A new perception about power and your place in the world is pushing up into your thoughts. This heralds changes coming this Spring that may seem so “not you” that they scare you a bit and make you think you have lost everything that is you. Don't hang your hat on that idea. Instead, see it all as an opportunity to grow beyond what you are right now and drop the scaredy cat act. 9 of Swords reversed

Want to know what's going on?Try this The Vortex: Where the Law of Attraction Assembles All Cooperative Relationships , this is a good one too, Power, Freedom, and Grace: Living from the Source of Lasting HappinessOR this one A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose.

The Speed of Light, Spring on Steroids and Why Can't I Stay Focused? - Free Weekly Horoscopes

Spring has Sprung but life isn't moving as fast as we would like. That's okay, we have all the time we need to get where we think we want to go. Spin in place just a few weeks more and you will be amazed where you land once the universe spits you out at your designated spot. Remember, Mother Nature always knows best.

Aries (March 21 - April 20) – Don't even think about adding a new project to your already overflowing plate. Instead, in order to gain some level of control over your world, pretend your plate is a paper plate and operate as if it will bend and cause ideas and resources to spill over and away from your grasp. Relationships are included in the concept of “projects” referred to here.

Taurus (April 21 - May 20) – Once again, Taurus, your desire for “things” is slowing down your progress. However, this time around you can “see” the truth behind your actions more clearly than you ever have before. This will cause you to consider operating a bit differently with others. Use this new found point of view to make the necessary decisions required to move forward.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20) – Now is the time to consider your emotional state in an up close and personal way by viewing yourself in those around you. Someone will hand you extra cash, always a nice thing to have, due to your unbelievable ability to make cash for them. You will be able to see very clearly what it is you did and how you can repeat the process for yourself so you can increase your income. Yea!

Cancer (June 21 - July 22) – If you continue to fight off your loved one's demons and make decisions for them due to their seeming inability to do it for themselves, you will continue to get nowhere fast. As upsetting as it may seem, it is time to kick them out, or refuse to assist, so that they can learn to operate on their own—this could also indicate an internal aspect of self. Think of it as a form of transformation for both of you.

Leo (July 23 - August 22) – Think of the next week as a lesson pertaining to the push-pull of energy and allow your inner voice to guide you through it. Fast forward powerful energy seems to be tacked down with any number of mental blocks causing a bit of ripping and tearing to occur. This is simply a moment or point of discovery. Standing still and paying attention will reveal a gift of information that uplifts you for aeons.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22) – The body your spirit resides in is gaining a deeper understanding of what it is you truly desire and the shell you peer from is quite capable of protecting you as you move through time. Keep this in mind during the week as you will need to face more birthing pains before you settle comfortably into the Spring of 2012. Leaving is not required, only the recognition that certain behaviors must be dropped.

Libra (September 23 - October 22) – Libra, you are revisiting and reworking a bit of information that will assist you to thrive this Summer. This info helps uncover a way to stand alone and make the piles of money you so desire. Suggestion is at the basis of what you need to learn—remember, your subconscious is amenable to suggestion from the images and words you provide it.

Scorpio (October 23 – November 22) – Life lightens up a bit for Scorpio this week. However, that does not mean you are off the hook for the items you are responsible for. You will be separated from a partner, friend or fellow co-worker you are close to due to a decision made from a manager or someone higher up in your personal chain of command. Don't panic. This is just a test to see how you manage on your own.

Sagittarius (November 23 - December 21) – Reassessing and reviewing your personal kingdom reveals a few flaws that need to be addressed. This may include associates or employees that need to be excommunicated for one reason or another or it may mean dropping an odd and unproductive personal behavior. Find other ways to rearrange your process/schedule/work day that eliminate the problem easily.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19) – It is time to take control of your life and direct your own destiny. Everything you have learned up until this point is available to you—that includes everything from all lifetimes. This may mean saying goodbye to some bits of nonsense you have grown to believe are normal. Begin examining this transformation of self by listening to your thoughts—what we focus on is what shows up in our lives.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 19) – You may be tempted to jump ship this week and run away, but that would be ill-advised. Yes the energy, force and speed at which you are being asked to operate seems super-human and you may think you need to brace yourself. However, finding a different way or perspective in which to view what is occurring is the key to survival at the moment. In fact, it is the key to forward motion.

Pisces (February 20 - March 20) – A miracle is taking place around you. Are you watching with an open attitude and the appropriate reverence? Higher guidance has lead you to where you are now standing and away from the fray that others are in the middle of. Refuel your personal batteries and spend some time contemplating what has just occurred and where you want to go next.

Ease and Happy Results - Free Weekly Horoscopes

HOME

The shakes and rattles of the last month settle down for us this week, at least enough to regroup and begin forging a new direction. The cards advise removing the emotional aspect and dealing with the facts and facts only. Making decisions when emotions run high can reproduce the exact scenario that provided the roller coaster emotions in the first place.

First, move to higher ground. Whether you are living along the Mississippi river or in the middle of the desert, higher ground is safer ground no matter what.

Second, approach home in a spiritual manner. Home is where we go to be ourselves, to think, to feel safe and to express ourselves fully. Allowing people to invade your space just because you are too polite to prevent them visiting is a problem. When you don;t respect the people coming into your home and/or they don't respect you, the energy serves to plug up your home. This keeps your desires at bay because the energy is not allowed to flow the way “you” need it to.

Make your home a sanctuary. Keep people out of your sacred areas, like your bedroom, for instance. If you are social and love to have people over then create a seating area outside or off a kitchen for that function.

Third, keep it cleaned up. Piles and stacks of belongings and trash that stay put for too long stifle the flow of the home and its occupants.

WORK

Maybe its the approaching holiday weekend or the thought of summer but work lightens up a bit, too. However, if you aren't on board with the new direction the company is taking then you need to rethink where you are concerning your job.

Things are going to change in the work arena in a huge way over the next two years. Some business owners are beginning to see the new story unfold for them and are making new plans, reorganizing their organization and rethinking how work needs to occur.

Others, are digging in and trying to maintain the status quo. If you are not happy with your job and your employer is a status quo type company, bail now. Find something else to do, working for someone who appreciates their employees, even if it means working for a local restaurant or taking a pay cut just find something that makes your heart sing.

The tarot shows shifting sands in the area of work. This includes the concept of work. Why does it have to be work? Why can't it be fun? The alignment of Mercury, Venus, Mars, Uranus and Jupiter this month is bringing change whether we like it or not. Might as well decide what it is you want the change to be, right?

FINANCES

Go it alone and do not be afraid. Fear can draw to you exactly what you do not want. If we keep pretending that the world's finances are okay then they will be. That means changes ahead will fall right into place with ease. If we shake in our shoes and worry and fret then we get more problems. Either way none of it is resolvable on the surface.

“Feel” your way through this idea and use your emotions to tell you what you need to know but do not act out of emotional despair. Whatever your emotion is at the time you make your financial decisions, you will get more of the same.

Many people attach power to finances and wealth. That means their finances rule their life. Others, understand that money is simply a tool we use to explore our internal lives.

Work with the idea that your finances reflect your understanding of value. Examine what you believe to be of value. Value yourself more and see what happens.

HERE IS WHAT TO PRACTICE

Flow with the stream of energy we call life. Accept what is and keep track of where you fall “off track” by documenting your daily events with a diary.

A spiral notebook, index cards, copy paper, a formal diary..find something to take down your thoughts at the end of everyday. Ask yourself questions in your diary and see what answers appear in the next days and weeks.

Keywords Get You What You Want

Here's a link to the weekly horoscopes in case you missed them or need to check in.

I am watching with amusement a local business development group attempting to rally around the same goal but with minimal success. The reason I am amused is because of the words they are choosing to use in describing each others needs and their own perceptions. They are further insulting each other without meaning to. This is something I recognize in the outside world all of the time. Most of our issues are a matter of semantics. We don't disagree as much as we perceive. We just don't choose the correct words to a.) state what we mean and b.) get what we want.

A Case Study
For example, the situation I am watching involves several groups attempting to develop business around a core industry. Each group plays a particular role, some with more power to outwardly direct the industry and others with just as much if not more power but less so in the actual development. The word “weak” was used to describe the later group in a heated conversation. I laughed out loud and clutched my heart at the same time. You don't insult the ones you are looking to for support even if “weak” is a valid description in a particular situation. Identifying them as having a different stake in the issue would have been a better move.

Here are four ways to use words more effectively.

Listen, listen, listen and listen some more. Listen to them and yourself and put yourself in the shoes of the other. Would you want to be referred to as weak? I think not. Consider words that are more balancing. If needed use a dictionary but stay within the bounds of normal language for the topic.

Don't respond immediately. This is so difficult to follow but one of the best pieces of advice anyone ever gave me. Wait, smile, and wait some more. Do you really have something to contribute or do you think you gain power by saying just anything? Or worse yet, do you just need to hear yourself speak?

Return to the issues. When words have been misunderstood the best way to diffuse is to return to the issues at hand. Do you know what they are and have they been identified before the discussion started?

Keep up. Sounds silly but if you are speaking to a broad audience do you understand the real issues? Are you aware of the world and its changing vernacular? We can get side tracked as we age and wake up one day to discover the world has changed under our feet. Make an effort to understand what someone is attempting to convey and where their points of reference might be staked.

I am not one for watering down language—George Carlin has my respect in many ways. Say what you mean don't speak to be mean. Choosing words carefully can mean the difference between building bridges or creating unnecessary oceans.

Weekly Tarot HoroscopesMay 3 - May 9, 2010

Aries Mars (March 21 - April 20) – A momentary breakthrough gets things moving forward, at last. Reassess everything in light of this new information and rearrange until it feels right. It may take a few months before you feel normal again—or at least your version of normal. 2 of Wands

Taurus Venus (April 21 - May 20) – You might actually be free of someone that has hampered your thoughts for a very long time. A shift has occurred and your world will follow soon. In the mean time, it becomes an entertaining balancing act and the need to “deal with” the outside world is highlighted. King of Swords reversed

Gemini Merucry (May 21 - June 20) – It is clean-up time, Gemini. Sweep up and finally discard those illusions that have dropped their veils. Let go of resentments and remove anything from your “realm” that does not work or is in the way. Home and family is taking on a whole new look and feel. Justice reversed

Cancer Moon (June 21 - July 22) – It may seem to you that life is unfair but in actuality your interpretation makes it so. If a living (or work, or relationship) situation has come to an end (and not by your choice) don't hang on to it, don't get revenge and don't go back to visit. Instead, let go and accept. Things will run more smoothly if you do this. Sun

Leo Sun (July 23 - August 22) – Revelations and mystical connections (possibly not of the same topic) start the week off. Home is stable but others around will be moving on. It's best not to speak about it or risk getting others riled up and angry. Just go with the flow. 10 of Cups

Virgo Mercury (August 23 - September 22) – You do not have to sell the farm to get what you need right now. Just reassess what you are spending monthly and cut back but don't wait to do so. Stagnation is far more destructive than cutting and moving on. Taking on a new cause may be just as detrimental. 2 of Wands reversed

Libra Venus (September 23 - October 22) – We have one word for you this week – relationships. Guidance comes from inner hearing and knowing and your emotional nature gets triggered when a new person arrives in your world specifically to get your “love mojo” moving once again. Devil

Scorpio Pluto (October 23 – November 22) – Hang on, everything is moving into a topsy-turvy position for a short period. Just remember that you are in control of what you think and that is what will prevent your emotions from diving too deep. 2 of Wealth reversed

Sagittarius Jupiter (November 23 - December 21) – You finally have your attention directed to a situation that needs your focus. The choices have been removed from your reach because of a person who thinks they know best. It is time for you to reclaim your ability to make your own decisions. 8 of Swords reversed

Capricorn Saturn (December 22 - January 19) – Things happen very quickly this week—they erupt, get challenged, decisions get made and it all passes within hours. This all triggers your emotional responses because most of it revolves around new wealth opportunities. Ace of Cups

Aquarius Uranus (January 20 - February 19) – Worry and concern need to be put into perspective, quickly. You may be responding without the full knowledge of the facts and events. Instead, accept what is and refocus upon your hearts desires. 9 of Swords

Pisces Neptune (February 20 - March 20) – You have had many opportunities to explore different avenues of expression. It is now time to focus on one that is of particular interest. Review and make a decision about what you will work with for the next several months. 4 of Wealth reversed

Weekly Tarot HoroscopesApril 26 - May 2, 2010

Aries (Mars) – No matter how you are perceiving your life situation, it will be beneficial to assume that everything is in its right place. In other words, find the joy in every single thing you do this week and more joy will follow—honest. 2 of Wands reversed

Taurus (Venus) – Spirit is asking you to throw off the heaviness of the last ten years—in one conscious thought. The opening in your thinking that this process leaves allows for some major changes in your life. Are you willing to step forward into this new adventure? Judgement reversed

Gemini (Mercury) – The parts of you that are hesitant and wishy-washy are ready to become stable, focused and in charge. You have spent an enormous amount of time planning a new birth (a project, job, business, a move) and it's emotional rewards are now available. 9 of Wealth reversed

Cancer (Moon) – Hidden meanings only come through work and daily routines that are viewed during the dream state. You must help yourself during this period of time as no one else will be available to hold your hand. This is only a short period of time so don't attach to it on an emotional level. Hermit reversed

Leo (Sun) – Look for the beam of light that highlights an area of thinking or viewing. The light is showing you that some groups of thoughts need to be reorganized. Illusions that you hold are scheduled for some shattering—remember, illusions are not real. Hermit

Virgo (Mercury) – You have wrangled away from a hole in your thinking, moved away from something that could have destroyed your well laid plans. Stay focused and continue to see the final outcome as you desire it to be and watch your world shift. 6 of Swords

Libra (Venus) – A new way of being, of living, begins to unfold. You are in control of this adventure so examine it to locate the reins and the engine that powers it. You are headed toward discovering your authentic home, family and path. Knight of Wands reversed

Scorpio (Pluto) – You may feel that the decision got made without your input but don't hang on to that thought for too long. Release it and move forward—that way it won't come back to haunt you. Allow yourself the luxury of creating a new goal. Knight of Cups reversed

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – Run! Run away, far away from being trapped by a female's belief system—it isn't yours and you should not accept it as such. The situation will change rapidly and may be volatile. Balance is the challenge. King of Wealth reversed

Capricorn (Saturn) – An ongoing argument has come to its final resting place. A decision must be made about how to handle family life so that everyone has what they need. It's not as difficult a decision as you might think. Help is offered if you will look for it. Queen of Cups

Aquarius (Uranus) – Now that life has settled into a routine, you can go back to shaping and forming this new world you have invented. Learning to balance what you can see with what is going on internally takes on new meaning here. World

Pisces (Neptune) – That homesick feeling is fighting with the exhilaration of being in a new environment. Spend your time finding some type of routine that fills the void. Don't forget that this new place can provide a new level of personal empowerment. Fool

Weekly Tarot HoroscopesApril 19 - April 26, 2010

Aries (Mars) – It's a profound move on your part and requires an absolute walking away or letting go—complete forgiveness with no strings. It may feel odd and out of control. Don't spend too much time analyzing it or it will not “stick”. King of Wands

Taurus (Venus) – You are holding an illusion about a dominant female character in your psyche. If you don't address the false assumptions, the changes you want to make will not be fruitful. Stop going along with her ideas and you get released from a pit of worry. Ace of Wealth

Gemini (Mercury) – Developing different points of view is the realm of the Gemini mind. This week indicates some shifting and reassessing of certain ideas. Home is a sanctuary and provides a great nest to plant seeds from. Thank your inner guidance often to reap further rewards. 10 of Wands reversed

Cancer (Moon) – Loved ones have messages for you that you cannot seem to grasp. The information is coming to you at night and leaving a trail of bread crumbs for you to follow during your waking hours. Watch and compare inner and outer notes as you move through the day. Hierophant

Leo (Sun) – Action has been taken on the home front. Legal issues take care of pending strings and protocol. The issue is not what you can do, it is what they attain to in life. It is best to let go of this one and move on with other thoughts. 4 of Swords reversed

Virgo (Mercury) – The balancing act you are moving between—belief that anything is possible versus the reality you find yourself in—becomes more apparent to you this week. This often happens when moving toward a melding point where one replaces the other. 2 of Wealth

Libra (Venus) – A new point of view and a release mark the week. Letting go of the internal power struggle occurs but don't replace it with an equally messed up mental construct. Let it be what it is and then move on with your life. 9 of Wands reversed

Scorpio (Pluto) – Your mental responses—the voices in your head—follow them back to their original planting. It would seem you keep repeating a childhood theme given to you by a male figure of authority. Work on releasing that information and watch your life change for the better. 9 of Wands reversed

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – Use this outpouring of emotion to propel a deep desire for a particular change in your life. Otherwise, the emotion will attach to the first thing that pops into your head and why would you hand over control to a wayward idea that just happens to pop into your thinking? Ace of Cups reversed

Capricorn (Saturn) – A sense of gratitude and joy sweeps through you this week. Remember this feeling and store it away for future reference. Use it to lift your spirits at a later point in time—it is a gift from higher realms, a reminder of what life really is. World reversed

Aquarius (Uranus) – You finally see someone you work with for what they really are and it's not the upright citizen they would like every one to believe in. The realization leads you to a decision that is difficult considering the effort you have put into getting you where you are. 2 of Wands reversed

Pisces (Neptune) – It seems like an awful mess to have to deal with, especially after the effort to arrive in one piece. Lift your thoughts up higher and you will see that there is a good reason and moving on to a better place is already in motion. 6 of Swords reversed

Weekly Tarot HoroscopesMarch 22 - March 28, 2010

Aries (Mars) – Feeling a little out of control? If you are focused upon winning a losing battle then you would think you would be feeling more in control, not so. No one ever really wins anything, period, no way, no how. Chariot reversed

Taurus (Venus) – So much transformation, so little time. A basket load of change is occurring right under your feet. The only way to manage this huge effort on your part is to stay in touch with what is going on internally. Watch the breath, follow it. 9 of Wands reversed

Gemini (Mercury) – Wow, triumph, release from old thought patterns and it feels like no effort has been made to accomplish this. Remember, you are in charge of the reality you create...becoming aware of your thought patterns needs to continue. Don't stop now. 2 of Wands

Cancer (Moon) – It is time to investigate the illusion that you use to base all your decisions upon. Move on and away from a present situation--the power and force necessary to move away is available now. Listen for inner guidance by meditating everyday for 10 minutes. Ace of Cups

Leo (Sun) – The wheels are turning...a discerning moment from months back is finally resulting in a release from a particularly unpleasant situation. Finally the energy shifts and the path you wanted to attract in the first place begins to unfold. Hanged Man

Virgo (Mercury) – You feel ready to let go of a personal safety issue and you truly believe that you have done so. Make sure that you are not dragging an illusion along with you. Examine your motives and patterns and work through this one again. 8 of Cups reversed

Libra (Venus) – A decision is needing to be made about a new partnership. No great revelations here, just the need to decide and take action. Success is in the offing and the possibility of moving to a new location comes to the surface. 2 of Swords

Scorpio (Pluto) – It may feel like a barren waste land to you but, in truth, you are building something. The foundation always looks blank and unexciting—you are the one to decide how to fill it in. Make sure you double check everything before moving on. 3 of Wands

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – Slow down and plan a celebration. Spend some time with friends and review common ground. A minor transformation of the mind is under way. Its completion is dependent upon your ability to meditate and listen. 4 of Swords

Capricorn (Saturn) – In some ways the world feels like a fresh, new adventure. In other ways, the world feels slow and sad and out of sorts with you and your desires. You have an opportunity to start a new life, how will you approach this? 2 of Wands

Aquarius (Uranus) – Everything in its place and a place for everything, or so you have been lead to believe. Sometimes things fluctuate and touch no ground, floating, as it were. You aren't seeing the full picture yet. Give it time. Hierophant

Pisces (Neptune) – Getting home settled and everything in place appears to be the goal this week. Charge in with the thought of assisting and not the thought of taking control and things will work more smoothly. Transform the home into a healing space. Knight of Wands

Weekly Tarot HoroscopesFebruary 22 - February 28, 2010

Aries (Mars) – This week shows a turn in the direction you thought you were headed. This does not change anything except your personal perceptions. Your childhood thinking resurfaces and its time to review and take note of the mind maps you have created, so far. Justice

Taurus (Venus) – Another shift to manage, yes you CAN do it. This is one of those “had to end” relationships—it really didn't feed the lifestyle you imagine for your self. More possibility is piling up outside your door. Lots of new opportunities, you just need to choose ONE. 2 of Cups reversed

Gemini (Mercury) – Do not let the veil of illusion cloud a decision. What you are seeing may not be what is truly happening below the surface. A new personal connection/relationship balances out a moment of stress. This is an earned occasion, one that was planned. 7 of Cups

Cancer (Moon) – It might be just fine that you cannot see exactly where you are going—the scenery may be daunting and confusing. The results are spectacular and mingle with the idea of carrying your home on your back. A new way to interact with everyone is born. 8 of Swords

Leo (Sun) – A bout of unhappiness delivers some solutions. The subconscious is searching for a way to assist and you keep throwing the answers back. Rewrite the script you have been working on to create the changes you desire. High Priestess

Virgo (Mercury) – The week centers around home and relationship. The truth gets spilled and the situation is much messier than first thought. Legal issues may surface. Keep in mind that a time frame has opened in order to deal with this in a quick manner. Old ideas must go. 10 of Wealth

Libra (Venus) – Out of the desire for opulence comes a series of situations bring more of that into your life. A gift out of the blue occurs simultaneously with a shift in consciousness. A new idea gets verbal time, even some planning and forming, and then it gets dropped, or so you think at the time. 9 of Wealth

Scorpio (Pluto) – Don't hang on to sorrow or upset—it is time to release all of it. This is a lesson in how to work with the energy of the universe, how to get what you truly want. Legal issues begin to shift but will hang on for a while longer. Silence continues to be imposed. 3 of Swords reversed

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – There are two or more sides to every story even those stories that have only one character—you. A shift in thinking, an aha! moment, shows you the duality of your life. Now you must decide whether to continue hiding it or to bring it out in the open. Magician reversed

Capricorn (Saturn) – Stepping away from a questionable situation was a good decision but unless you examine the thinking that got you there to begin with it could reoccur. A new relationship comes and goes quickly. The wheel of life has other plans for you. 8 of Cups reversed

Aquarius (Uranus) – The job is calling for much more than you signed up for and you may need to point that out. It could lead to another job to replace it or it could mean that the job description gets rewritten. Decide what you want and see it clearly. Hierophant reversed

Pisces (Neptune) – Another relationship (friendship, business partner, lover, baby) is left behind and a new one arrives quickly. The birthing process you are working with delivers opportunity and a new persona, a new role to play. Completion and rebirth are the themes this week. Knight of Cups reversed

Weekly Tarot HoroscopesFebruary 15 - February 21, 2010

Aries (Mars) – That last bit of tape is being ripped away from your eyes. The illusion that you have been working behind is suddenly gone. What is revealed is exactly what you have been working on but unconscious of. 7 of Cups reversed

Taurus (Venus) – The point at which you find yourself in this moment is truly the beginning of a new opportunity—if you choose to see it that way. Spend sometime deciding where you want to be next year at this time. Write it down and refer to it as often as you like. 7 of Swords reversed

Gemini (Mercury) – Continue using those contemplative tools that you have been focused on for the last year. Keep your focus on what you want—no can't, shouldn't, wouldn't or don't should be included. The “feel” in the reins you hold is adjusting so just allow it all to be. 10 of Swords reversed

Cancer (Moon) – The loss appears frighteningly huge but the truth is it will allow you to shift forward, faster and unencumbered. View the remaining information as a gift. Keep it as a motivating force and say “thank you” as often as you remember to. 5 of Cups

Leo (Sun) – You have entered into an agreement that makes you uncomfortable and a bit unnerved—maybe you are just scared. The scenario is bigger than you have ever dealt with and so there is a challenge to take on. Stay centered and do not sway—just listen carefully. 10 of Swords

Virgo (Mercury) – Your unwilling participation pushes to the surface a realization. Power and emotion were tangled together in your childhood web of information. You can now untangle those concepts if you are willing to pay attention. Ace of Cups reversed

Libra (Venus) – It does not have to be hard work. It can, in fact, be very easy to assemble and bring forward. Get your mind wrapped around the ease at which you can birth this new project you have begun. Ask for assistance and it will appear. Ace of Wealth reversed

Scorpio (Pluto) – Stay away from arguments and petty discussions of all kinds. Take a deep breath, repeat whatever mantra you have chosen to shift your thinking (“Thank you” is always a good one) and keep walking. Playing the authority figure is not in your best interests right now. Lovers reversed

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – A directive is given (look for strong female energy giving it) and the opportunities begin to flow to you. You may respond with confusion. Spend some time getting focused on what you want to achieve and not what is offered. Queen of Swords

Capricorn (Saturn) – The end is nearing and new possibilities are bubbling to the surface. Just when you thought you were birthing one thing you discover there are other financial opportunities arriving at the same time. Ten minutes of meditation a day will rectify the focus you seek. Lovers

Aquarius (Uranus) – Home is now in two places or split in some way. It is an unusual place to be in and one that requires time, patience and acceptance to maneuver through. Watch the environment carefully before responding emotionally. 10 Of Wealth reversed

Pisces (Neptune) – How it will all pan out is still quite confusing. Know that guidance is always available if you will just get quiet for a few moments, focus and ask for it. Your subconscious is being prepared to receive very old and deeply stirring information. High Priestess reversed

Free Weekly Tarot HoroscopesOctober 26 - November 1, 2009

Aries (Mars) – A suggestion from the dominant female energy in your life leaves you wondering. Her pointed questions are a key to a new set of responses just waiting to be discovered by you. Queen of Cups

Taurus (Venus) – The hard work pays off and you do receive the correct reward. However, you mentally berating everyone involved is a silly. Let go of this. 10 of Wands reversed

Gemini (Mercury) – Blocking suggestions that do not benefit your direction is well-advised—do not accept everything you hear as true. This new frame of mind affects everyone around you in the best way possible. 10 of Swords reversed

Cancer (Moon) – The internal authority figure that regulates personal boundaries has put a foot down and is no longer accepting new candidates for entry. Relationships not in your best interests and are now kaput. Emperor

Leo (Sun) – Assistance arrives, swiftly and easily. New work rolls in. This releases a potential for directing your energy that you have been aiming for. Great power and force are behind this. 6 of Coins

Virgo (Mercury) – What appears to be a loss is really a shift and a step upward. A dominating female attempts to shoo you away. You can go if you want to but you do not have to. 9 Of Wands reversed

Libra (Venus) – Do you know what love really is? Is your interpretation an illusion or is it based on knowledge and understanding? Someone who is deceiving you will show you where you make bad choices. Page of Cups reversed

Scorpio (Pluto) – While everyone else has let go of their misinterpretations, a single person still hangs on to old beliefs. New, deeply personal connections are available internally—nurture them. 10 Of Wands reversed

Sagittarius (Jupiter) – It just was not meant to be, do not hang on to it. Consider that your spirit is being tempered for bigger things and allow others their interpretations and responses without judging them or their actions. Queen of Cups reversed

Capricorn (Saturn) – Satisfaction is guaranteed but only if you have placed your focus carefully. What if the basis of your perceptions came from someone you never met? Could you change them? Page of Coins

Aquarius (Uranus) – The foundation is in place and being deeply anchored this week. You have ripped the roots of illusion right out of their sockets and others are stunned. Have you gone too far? Magician

Pisces (Neptune) – A “light bulb moment” has you rocking all week. That legal issue is met with love and so it dissipates quickly. Balance creativity with personal drive. Hanged Man

Tools for Creating Your Life - Weekly Tarot Horoscopes

September 3 - September 9

Tools For Creating Your Life
Forgive me Doug if I don’t get the words exactly as you spoke them, I believe it was “How I respond is exactly what I will manifest.” Your words reminded me that each of us must translate the idea of creating the life we desire into our own understanding. This includes listening to ourselves and understanding that we are only in control of how we choose to respond. We cannot control how others respond or react.

Write Your Own Script
Spending time putting inspiring ideas and concepts into our own words is essential to creating our own beliefs and opinions. This accomplishes several things:

1.We become creators and not blind followers.
2.We become more active participants in life.
3.We begin to develop our own belief system and world-view.
4.We challenge the mind to stretch and understand others.

Creating the life you desire requires you to understand what you have built to this point and how you went about it. In beginning this challenge there is a dismantling process that often has a long and wide learning curve. There is a lot of time spent listening and analyzing and questioning, years for most of us.

3 Essential Tools
In addition to listening more closely, there are a few other tools that will come in handy if you choose to follow this path.

1.Keep a dictionary close at hand. You may think you know the definition of a word but you might be surprised to know it has multiple meanings. Dictionaries can also assist you in finding the right words to use when replacing old, worn out or destructive words.

2.Creating a dream state “to do” list before drifting off to sleep will give your dream states some structure. I can’t guarantee the minds willingness to go along with this idea in a way that makes sense to you in a waking state. I can tell you that I use this practice often and have had some great personal breakthroughs. I usually do this when I am being “hit” from several different directions to make decisions or I am stumped as to my own behavior. I make a list of what I want to understand or have an answer to and I do this right before I fall asleep. I usually will make an entry in a diary or sometimes I will write it on a blank note card and slip it under my pillow. Sometimes the answers come plain and clear as I wake up and sometimes they take days to develop. This is something you cannot rush or make respond. You must develop patience in order to work with this.

3.Doodling helps the brain and the mind rewire itself. I use the term “rewire” loosely here as I really don’t know how this works, I just know that it does. Grab a pen or pencil or whatever you like to write with and a blank sheet of paper, an envelope, a sticky note, a napkin, or invest in a sketch tablet from the hobby or art store. Invest in some good colored pencils, felt tip pens, rolling writers or what ever floats your boat. Spend time during the day or evening, whenever the mood strikes and doodle – draw circles, squares, triangles, whatever patterns come to you. I tend to put a date on mine, although I’m not sure why except that it gives me some sense of time frame when I look back over them. Doodling does not require any type of art skills, in fact, art skills has nothing to do with this practice. Almost everyone has done this type of thing at some time or another, usually while we are on the phone or when we are not able to or unwilling to follow a public speaker or school lecture. It has the ability to relax the mind and give it a rest from the left side of the brain. Very important to give the body and spirit a rest from the constant analyzing and berating the left side of the brain has a tendency toward.

Remember this is a process that unfolds like a peacock can unfold its feathers slowly and deliberately. Here’s a doodle for inspiration.

Create your own opportunities!

Change Is A Good Thing - Weekly Tarot Horoscopes

August 20 - August 26

Friend or Foe
Change is good. New shoes, groceries and gas for the car are good too. Watching a Netflix movie is good. Keeping the bathroom and the kitchen clean is good too. Did I mention that change is good? Finding a new place for Saturday lunch is good. Getting a pay increase is even better. Receiving a pay cut may mean it is time to change jobs and change our thinking and make things better for ourselves. So why do we think change is bad? Why does everyone have such a problem with change?

Do we think we need to gain something in order for change to be good? Do we fear death and so any change that occurs is an indication that death is imminent, that things might not be as they appear? Do we perceive that no gain for us means change is detrimental in some way? Maybe change just means we haven’t been paying attention, like a friendly reminder that life works in cycles.

Question
I don’t have any answers this week, just questions about why change is such a block for us. And this thought: Change is only bad if you think of it that way, even in the worst of circumstances.

I’ve spent the last week in training mode, learning new things about my job and discovering my connections to a whole new generation of people and new friends. I’ve had several readings for others that stumped me and accusations that astounded me. All of it has got me thinking a lot about change. Oh yes, and it probably has something to do with studying in depth a card that often causes people to shudder when it shows up in a reading.

Making New Images
Change/Transformation requires our self-conscious to adjust and/or make new images and image making is a strange bedfellow. It does not begin with seeing with the eyes so much as with seeing internally. It is fed by sound, smell, taste, touch and knowing. Then it is fed by actual sight, if you are blessed with that gift. It has more to do with needs and feelings and desire than it has with objects and money and power. Image making has everything to do with change because in order to achieve those images we must be willing to aggressively make and accept change in our lives.

So if you don’t like change you can give me yours. I like quarters and half-dollars the best.

Tips & Tools To Get Timing Right - Part 4

This is a 4 part series on tips and tools to get your creative timing on its most advantageous track.

Here is the fourth and last installment in this series on Timing Is Everything – Tips & Tools for Getting Timing Right.

Tip#3
90-Day Wonders or The 3 Moon Rule

I learned this tip from a therapist friend years ago when I was in my early twenties. It is one of those tips that really should be a rule for measurement in everyone’s arsenal as it clears the way for the great relationships, jobs and projects to come forward. With this rule I have learned to identify relationships that will work for me and my path and those that are treacherous ground.

It was explained to me this way: Everyone has a story. When you meet someone you must allow time for the real story to come forward because many of us attempt to hide the truth from each other and sometimes we just don’t want to see the truth or we just aren't hearing it. It becomes difficult the longer you know someone for that someone or you to keep up a façade or to hide the real truth from each other. In 3, 30-day cycles the truth almost always is revealed. The relationships that don't make it past 90 days are called "90 Day Wonders."

I have taken a few liberties garnered from life experience to make this rule. The question is, are you willing to see the truth? Is this relationship worth the effort? Is this relationship feeding truth?

When To Use This Rule

This rule is one that tends to linger in the background anytime you meet someone and begin to forge some kind of a connection. It doesn’t have to be a love connection. It can simply be a work connection or social connection as well.

Use this rule when:
- Someone wants or demands a commitment of some kind in an unreasonable amount of time
- You find yourself committing to someone or something without a lot of thinking or planning behind it
- It's too good to be true
- Someone takes the reins right out of your hands
- You feel shamed or manipulated into a relationship

How To Use This Rule

Look for the other person's response when implementing this rule. It is a giveaway as to how they operate and what their needs are. Note when things start to shift, get pushy or out of hand, by using a calendar and making notes about time frame--this is how you track the 90 day time span. Many of these relationships will end in 30 to 60 days. Do they need to know you are doing this? No.

- Use a calendar to mark the points in the relationship. Note in particular the date of meeting so you can time the process.
- Look for signs of violence, manipulation, lying, or betrayal and mark these on the calendar
- Don't be afraid of confronting the other person when they get pushy. Back them off with "this is moving way too fast" and note their response. An accusatory, violent or manipulative response is a sure sign to get out immediately.
- Ask for an objective third party to help you identify what is going on.

Pitfalls and Challenges

- Not all relationships will fit the 90-day rule. There are always exceptions but before you decide to throw out the 90-day rule, get some objective opinions from a third party.
- Just because you meet people through friends, church or other organizations you feel comfortable with, that doesn’t mean you should disregard this rule.
- Learning to trust your instincts takes time and practice. Most of us have been taught to push down, ignore, or ridicule our own feelings and responses so allow yourself time to learn about you through this rule.
- Not every relationship will require you to use this rule. Some just work from day one with no anxiety or trust issues.

The Reward of the 90-Day Rule

Using the 90-day rule can give you insight into the possible issues and rough spots of a relationship. It enables you to identify the issues in a relationship that you just cannot live with and those that you can learn to deal with. It can alert you to trouble.

The first 90 days of a relationship are arguably the most important as they can give you a very clear idea of what is in store. Open discussion between the 2 players can solidify a strong connection or put things into an intelligent perspective.

The plain truth about anything is that if it is suppose to happen it will. Forcing a relationship to work through manipulation or misdirected feelings is a path to disaster. Give yourself the room and time frame to allow this truth to come forward by using the 3-day rule, the 30-day rule and the 90-day rule whenever you feel stifled, crushed or atypically euphoric.

Staying objective is the real trick and these rules can help you master objectivity.

Here's a link to:
Part 1 - Timing Is Everything, Tips & Tools To Get Timing Right

Part 2 - The 3-Day Rule

Part 3 - The 30-Day Rule

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Give Up? Are You Kidding? - Weekly Tarot Horoscopes

Juy 2 - July 8

Lots of strong feelings this week cause many of us to want to throw in the towel. Don’t. Don’t hand over your power to someone else just to placate the invaders. Do, however, measure carefully what you want to gain and what needs to drop away. Walk into any fray knowing what you want to gain from it. Formulate a direction before so that you have a foundation to act from. If you walk in with greed on the brain then you are missing the point.

It is those of use that have no foundation or a faulty foundation (premise can be substituted for the word foundation) that get knocked to the bottom. Giving yourself a point to work from means having a way to make clear and advantageous decisions – it gives you a place to refer the decisions to and the ability to ask, “Does it serve my purpose?” before saying yea or nay. The universe has an uncanny ability to match your needs to the right opportunity. Know this and live it.

Living is not a competition but if you choose to live your life in a competitive manner then someone wins and someone loses. Believing this is truth puts you into cycles of worry, concern, judging, and waves of superiority and inferiority. When did any of that get us where we need to go?

Education is the key.